After meeting Speer I made a conscious effort to get better with women. From January-October I tried so hard to sleep with as many women as possible. Which led me to my current fuck buddy and girlfriend Andrea. We met at my friend Virtuoso’s house and our encounter was quite unexpected. The police came to the door and as I am standing against the wall, she grabs my hand and takes me to the closet. Nothing really went off in my mind until I actually start dating her. I find out she is a slut. She hooks up with every guy she speaks to and lies about everything. Without fear I jump into this relationship until I take my first boot camp with Speer.

During my first boot camp I realize what it takes to become better with women. On the first night I number closed. She was a model and I could see why; long blond hair, bright green eyes and 6’3 without heels. On the second day we did day game, which I failed miserably. The approach anxiety took over and my feet turned into stone and my heart beat like a boxer’s fist on a speed bag. I hear Speer come up behind me and say “There are beautiful women everywhere and you all walk past like they don’t exist…OPEN THEM!”. I do exactly as he says and continued to fail. At the end of the day we recap everything that happened over the weekend and Speer speaks to me alone an wants me to intern for him, I was really excited about this opportunity. My dream was to be a pick up artist since I was in high school, I even used to carry around a stack of papers with pick-up lines on them and recite them to girls in the halls (it didn’t work).

After the boot camp I was invincible, no guy could touch my game with women (in my mind) I was trained by the best which made me one of the best…or so I thought. A dramatic change in my life was occurring at the time, I influenced my best friend Sergio to go play college football in Texas. He has massive amount of talent but he is really lazy and his mom was moving out into another apartment. So I had to look for somewhere to live and what better place to live than Project Miami. I packed my bags and moved into PM. I also quit my job, not because I wanted to but because I dyed a streak in my hair and they didn’t allow it. The thing about life is, you can’t be afraid to tell people to bend over and FUCK THE SHIT OUT OF THEM! Otherwise they will bend your tight little ass over and FUCK THE SHIT OUT OF YOU! Not once, not twice, but repeatedly until they can get their nut from you. I don’t like being fucked…BUT I LOVE TO FUCK! I will gladly do the fucking! . Everyone will try to fuck you, your boss, “friends”, and family members. So stand up and don’t let anyone say you can’t do something because it does not fit their rule book or guide lines. Jobs are like trains, miss one, in the next fifteen minutes there will be another one coming.

My first few nights in PM there was nothing much going on. No parties or anything of the sort. A week later Maven and I start going out and then I really see what my problems are. Escalating, touching, number closing and I just can’t get over those problems but I constantly work so they become less and less impactful . While I am out with Maven, Speer is doing Speer stuff. I don’t know what the fuck he does, I don’t know how he does it but he gets laid consistently, this nigga is like Steve Nash on the free throw line when it comes to women. He is consistent. On a Tuesday night I go out with Speer for the first time and I act as his chauffeur for the night. We pick up the most amazing Asian porn star I have ever seen and drive off to the grove. I drop them off at improv and ride solo into the grove; targets were limited which makes sense after all it was Tuesday, but still new to the art form I had self-limiting beliefs. After an hour of me not speaking to anyone I get a text from Speer saying, “We are going back to the house, come pick us up – Speer =——-D>” and I notice how gay his tag was… it looks like a dick but it could be a spear, does it make me gay for thinking it’s a dick first…..I mean come on THAT’S A DICK! . I pick them up and not even 5 min into the drive I start to hear slurping sounds in the back seat. I do something that no man should ever do while they or some one else in the car is getting road head and that’s DRIVE FASTER. I have never gotten road head, I don’t really get blow jobs in general, I’m too ticklish. So at the time I was the worst person to drive that car. I didn’t calculate stopping or speeding up…. That bitch almost bit his dick off according to him. After I kinda safely got them back home, I had a lot of thinking to do not on my driving but more on my approach.

That Friday night I go out with Maven to Hyde beach, its his first time actually at Hyde beach and we are having a blast. I am still a newbie when it comes to approach but of course when I turn to my left I see Maven instantly attract a woman to speak with him. It was like magic, the way her eyes lit up and glittered. I spent the rest of the night trying to replicate the same effect but I failed. So Maven tells me that she is going to take him back to her place and he says to keep his phone on me so he could call me to pick him up. At the time I didn’t have a phone so it made things a little difficult. Things got more difficult when I went home, put mavens phone to charge in his room and fell asleep in my room.

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Over the last couple of years I have seen an alarming trend. I have always heard about this but haven’t seen it before because I wasn’t looking.

People not escalating! It seems to be an epidemic. To handle this problem I went out with our news intern Mixology and he challenged me who can touch the most in sets.

I thought this was an interesting idea. I have heard of everyone giving 20 dollars as a challenge for getting the courage to talk to the girl but nothing for getting people to escalate.

After about 5 minutes of deciding on rules me this is what we came up with. I think it will help others so I am putting it out for everyone to use.

Escalation Challenge Game

Points

1 high five low five

5 hug

10 holding hands for more than 1 minute

25 kiss on cheek (full kiss) not half kiss from Europe

50 for a kiss

100 Make out in isolation

200 Pulling girl back to house

500 full close

The points only count if it is with girls. What this will do is get you going around being social and having fun doing a friendly competition.

With us loser buys drinks next night out.  You can choose what the winner gets for being more social.

Hope this helps and all you guys are out having fun. Get creative and find new ways to do these.

A sex convention was when I first meet Speer. At the time, I didn’t know much about pick up other than The Game. A former intern at Kings of Pickup introduced me to him. He looked like a well-dressed nerd. He gave me a slight smile (you know, that smile that people give when they want to be interested, but don’t really give a fuck) and shook my hand, I didn’t know that pickup artists were so cocky. It feels like if you beat the shit out of them, they will regain some sense and jump right back into the place that society put these fucking nerds in, but I am 100% wrong. They will call the cops, try to sue you, and go back to doing the only thing that keeps them alive: picking up women.

We are the guys that come from sheltered homes and bad family backgrounds. We are the guys that got tired of getting girls alone and trying to kiss them, only to get pushed away with the response of “let’s just be friends” or “you’re a really great guy but I’m not into you like that”(WELL, IF I’M SO FUCKING GREAT, WHY DIDN’T YOU FUCK ME?! ). We are the little guys that walk up to women and say “Hey excuse me I am sorry to interrupt but I think you’re really beautiful and I would love to get to know you better. May I have your number?”, only to get rejected because she has a pretend boyfriend or she feels the need to be obnoxious and laugh at us and joke about how cute it was. We do this because we are tired of feeling like shit with women. Nerds also want to get laid! So, we go about it in the only way we know how…with our brain. Instead of using our physical attributes, we use our mental attributes. We generate better results due to our intensive study of social dynamics and the statistical research on what women respond to better in certain situations.

I believe that I will soon reach a point of self-actualization as a dating coach. Until then, I want you to join this journey with me. By the end of this year, you may even know me better than I know myself. I think living in the third person is always better because you can learn from someone’s mistakes and triumphs. Last but not least, I will always leave my readers with a field report.

Monday, February 25^th

Gio PrettyFlacko Vanni [6:13pm]
hey would you agree that some one would have trust issues due to something in the past? or do you think its more like a personality trait?

HER [6:14pm]
something in the past

(If she uses a one word response, ask why to get her speaking or else conversation will stop right there.)

Gio PrettyFlacko Vanni [6:14pm]
why do you agree with that?
the reason i ask because my roommate and i are speaking about this situation he is in right now with his G/F
she cheated on him with another girl
her actions and statements are contradicting each other
and he says that because of women like her is the reason why he has trust issues
has a situation like that ever happened to you?

(I ask why and I give her justification to respond. Women will not respond if they don’t have a good reason to, later in this conversation you will see what happens when you don’t give justification.)
HER [8:02pm]
I’ve had a boyfriend cheat on me
And I personally have never based my trust for someone based on something someone else did to me’
I base it entirely on what him and I have together and what he has shown me
but that’s hard for a lot of people to do

Tuesday, February 26^th 
Gio PrettyFlacko Vanni [12:52pm]
Not everyone thinks that way though, a lot of people hold grudges! i am no exception to this. I still to this day hold a huge grudge against my ex, it’s so bad that we can’t even try and become friends. i am sure you have felt the same with someone else and it totally changes the way you act toward people now wouldn’t you agree?
HER [1:12pm]
No I hold no grudges against anybody. A lot hold them against me but I meditate a lot and do a lot of deep thinking and try to not put out energies of love (:
Try to only***
Gio PrettyFlacko Vanni [1:38pm]
I totally understand you! i burn incense and meditate so i can reach a point of self-actualization with my work and etc. Did you know that meditation and sex are like the same to the brain? That’s why we can go longer without sexual activity! What type of meditation do you do?
your crazy ass must do mantra meditation! lol

(Here, I made a huge mistake by giving her options, but not highlighting which one I really would like her to respond to. I also tried to escalate sexually in this message, but gave her a clear path to avoid it.)

HER [1:59pm]
I do different types just based on w.e I’m feeling

Gio PrettyFlacko Vanni [2:18pm]
You must be the perfect pet owner! Your dog can do anything he/she wants! you must feed him/her only hamburgers from mcdonalds on sundays and wednesdays! MAN! what a lucky dog! so if you treat animals so well how do you treat your little sister?!

(Here, I got tired of speaking about meditation and moved to a psychological route, which will get her thinking and it’s random enough that she has to respond to it!)

HER [2:38pm]

What…

Gio PrettyFlacko Vanni [2:41pm]
you must be a perfect pet owner
so do you treat your family as amazing as you treat your pets?

HER [3:30pm]
Yeah…

Gio PrettyFlacko Vanni [3:32pm]
how so? are you a daddy’s girl or a mama’s girl?
HER [3:38pm]
Why are you asking me so many things

(This is what happens when you forget to justify why you are doing what you’re doing, and if I hesitated or gave her a bad reason, then things could have ended up pretty badly.)
Gio PrettyFlacko Vanni [3:43pm]
Because my roommate and i were just speaking about how people that have pets receive certain parenting traits from their own parents but if you are a mama’s boy/girl you take your fathers traits and if you are a daddy’s boy/girl you take your mothers traits, its a truly interesting concept if you really think about it! also we have not spoken since 2011 so im just realizing how much you have changed as a person. So your intellectualism interests me,so speaking to you is fun dont you agree?

(By the way, that was complete bullshit that I made up.)
HER [3:52pm]
Yes but I have always been this intellectual.. You just never took the time to ask anything about me
I’ve been meditating since I was 14
Yeah I love talking about deeper and more complex concepts
Gio PrettyFlacko Vanni [3:54pm]
well I have not been much of a spiritualist until recently that I love that about you it’s so great to have someone that I can speak to my crazy ideas and concepts about
so what do you think about the parental traits question?
HER [4:15pm]
Yeah I have these conversations daily haha I base my whole life on a deeper connection to the divine consciousness that inhabits everything
I actually can’t get that deep into it right now because I’m working

Gio PrettyFlacko Vanni [4:18pm]
so am i but we cant let this stop the flow of conversation let me get your number so i can text you

HER [4:19pm]

Lol sure 305 XXX XXXX

…Pinky started crying. I am pretty sure he was using NLP (Reverse psychology) for we could feel sorry for him. I wan not about to fall into his games or feel sorry for him. He was in full blown tears when he begged us to forgive him. He shouted like a little kid all the time. Dro walked out on him. Hush and I called him out on him shit AGAIN. He kissed our ass for we wont tell our other bosses. This wasn’t the first time he acted like a fool, and sure wasn’t going to be the last.

It was Pinky’s Birthday. The only cool thing about this party was that David Faustino or Bud Bundy from Married with Children showed up. He lived up the street so he decided to show up. Pinky was shitfaced again; Surprise Surprise! He kept wanting photos and video of him making out with ugly girls. Towards the end of the night, he locked himself in him room so that was the second highlight of that party.

Pinky was unprofessional. Maybe I should have taken a second look at his pink rooster hair. Another unforgettable trip was the second trip to Vegas. I drove Pinky as usual. Red Man and a student were in the back seat. It was getting late and I was tired as hell. I turned to Pinky and for the first time ever, I said somebody should take over the wheel as I couldn’t drive further. Red Man took over but as he was about to reverse, the car wasn’t in gear. Pinky heard the car ramming as it was not going anywhere. Suddenly, Pinky had a bitch fit, yelled at Red as if it was his fault. Pinky gets out of the passengers side and tells Red to get out. Pinky rambled and mumbled all pissed off in front of the student. Talking about how unprofessional that is.

Pinky seems like a cool down to earth dude when you first meet him. He got a so called “Most caring” PUA award. All he wants is your money and use you for all you got. If you only have $100, he would rather take those $100 than not to have $100 in his pocket. He would say, “I do not teach routines” but then he would tell his students what to say to girls. If you are going to teach cheap material, you should AT LEAST say the truth.

There has been lots of problems for us to release this list due to community politics, partnerships and drama. Although, at this point we have become one of the largest Dating & Relationships Companies in the world and there is no need to hold back.

We want to first recognize the Project Miami Local Team:

Speer – Rated the Best PUA in the world 2 years running, the Innovator and Creator of KOP, The Global Pickup Conference, and Speer Method. The Master of Lifestyle 5 years running. He continually paves the way to a real community through TV, Books, and other Media Formats. As well as opening up and hosting more conferences and projects mansions then ANY other Guru around the globe.

PROJECT MIAMI LOCAL CREW INCLUDES:

(v)aven – IRedman – l3ouncer – (\)ightwolf – I3ambam

..and the rest of our Global KOP Team streching to Israel, Australia, Europe, South Africa, and the rest of the world.

Without further delay, here is 2012′s TOP INSTRUCTORS & TRAINERS:

01. Brad P.

02. Sinn

03. Savoy

04. Adam Lyons

05. Tyler Durden

06.  Sasha Daygame

07. Mehow

08. Ross Jeffries

09. Christian Hudson

10. Jordan & AJ Harbinger

Pinky had left all the students behind and was hunting down anything a voucher would not pick up. He kept hitting on old, ugly hookers left in the the dark empty streets of San Fransisco. I have never ever seen a man get shot down, or blown out as PUA’s call it, so much in my life. He reaches out into his baby gap pants and throws away an empty bottle of whiskey into a trash can trying to hide it from me. The trash can was empty as you can hear a big glass thump all the way at the bottom.

We ended up at a diner in the corner by the hotel at 4 a.m. He amazingly asked me if I wanted something to eat. When I asked him what about the other guys, he said that they had cash if they wanted to eat. I was beginning to realize that what the guys said about Pinky was true before I moved in into Project Hollywood. All Pinky fed them was cup of noodles and everyone slept on the floor.

Pinky ordered himself a feast as I only ordered a small bowl of soup. He drank his milkshake and barely touched his food. I boxed it up for the guys which was good because they were starving when I got to the room. In the room I opened up the mini fridge and noticed that there was a bottle missing from the mini bar. As always, I made a smart remark and Pinky started laughing. “Oh Bouncer, you are a good detective.” It wasn’t a choice, years of criminal justice training, noticing something misplaced or gone just came second nature to me. Pinky turns on the television and orders lesbian porn. “You are not going to jack off in front of us are you?!,” I told him. He said, “no. I and not going to watch it, I am going to sleep listening to it. It is just for the trance.”

The next morning, or should I say 4 hours later, we were woken up by the pink rooster. He liked to start his bootcamps at 10 a.m. We were up by meaningless 8 a.m. so I asked him if he can buy everyone breakfast. He gave me $10 and sent me out to buy breakfast for 4 people. I have never in my life ate more Jack n the Box than this trip to SF. I was beginning to feel like that guy from Super Size Me.

His seminar was always the same sh*t over and over. He repeated the same speech AT LEAST 4 time in that day. Anyone could have taught his bootcamp in 2 hrs. The funny thing was that he always said that he didn’t teach routines but then he would tell the students tell her this and then tell her that. In the mall, some students came up to me and told me that the same girl had heard the same line 3 times already!

The thing I hated about Pinky is that he would always hold a “5″ minute meeting with us that would always be an hour long. Hush once said, “This is what Pinky says, ‘I have three important things to tell you guys.’ Bullshit BS and more BS and then the last thing is the key element.” He continued, “Then Pinky says, ‘Number 2, BS BS BS’ and the last part is the point.” Hush never spoke much but he was damn right. Right before we were meeting with the students down stairs at midnight, after Pinky yelled at some students, after he drank x bottles of liquor again, Pinky asked us to get together for a 5 minute meeting. Dro had a date that was waiting downstairs and Hush and I were not having with listening to his drunk ass rumbling again. Dro ended up yelling a Pinky because this 5 minute meeting was over 30 minutes long already and he always deviated from his point. He asked us what he did wrong and I let him have it. I told him that he looked like a fool yelling at his students and made an ass of himself drunk trying to teach.

Pinky started crying. I am pretty sure he was using NLP (Reverse psychology) for we could feel sorry for him. I wan not about to fall into his games or feel sorry for him. He was in full blown tears when he…

The sun shines on a beautiful four bedroom house in Miami Beach. It’s July 2011 and I wake up this beautiful Tuesday morning. My eyes flicker a little as they adjust to one beam of light shining in through the roll down hurricane shutters directly at my eyes. I roll over to my right to get away from the light and bump into my girl. I notice I’m on the edge of the left hand side of the bed and she’s hogging the rest. I have a California King on top of that.

I drag myself out of bed and it’s early…very early. Well 8:00am for me is extremely early. I usually wake up around 10:00am. I take care of the basic morning routine and walk out to the living room. I’m showered with warm sunlight as there are many sky lights in my Bal Harbor home. I linger for a bit enjoying the rays and tell myself, “It’s going to be a great day.” I often give myself affirmations in the morning. I head towards the kitchen and make us a couple of omelletes, bagels, coffee, and I split the portions evenly. I head back to the room to give my girl breakfast. When I get back to the room I find the bed empty. She’s in the bathroom. Great now the food is going to be cold I thought.

She eventually comes out but she’s not hungry. It’s too early to eat she tells me. Then grabs the cup of coffee and says, “I have to go to work soon.” She works quite a bit which is a quality I look for in a girl also known as a hustler.

I have this theory called Double Scales. In quick explanation it allows me to take emotions out of a relationship and make sure the girl fits what I want in life. Most of the time I used to get carried away with how I feel only to find out that the girl is a cheater, liar, lazy, or something else I couldn’t deal with for the long haul. Now it’s different because of Double Scales Theory.

Ok..here it is..

Waking up in bed alone is never a pleasant experience for me. It’s like there’s a piece missing from my bed, my life, and the essence that is me. It makes me feel incomplete and uncontent with myself. What does one do if he doesn’t want to be in this situation? What if I don’t want to go out and sarge tonight?

What if my yes girls (my girlfriends) do not want to come over and spend the night with me?

There’s always an answer to the questions I have. It’s always simple but yet extremely difficult at the same time. The answer is pick one out of my 11 yes girls which I call my girlfriends and make her my true girlfriend. Now that I know what to do it’s time to figure out how to pick her. Figuring which girl it should be is not a simple task. This is what brought me to create the double scales. The double scales is a system I have created in order to rank each one of my yes girls. The Double Scales System that I designed is based on the girls TE Value (time & effort value). Most people will never need to use such a system or will not quite understand it but for me it’s a crucial piece of the puzzle. Although I have decided to share this with you guys now.

TE VALUE (Time & Effort Value)
Time – Show Spelled Pronunciation[tahym] Pronunciation Key – Show IPA Pronunciation noun, adjective, verb, timed, tim•ing.
–noun
1. the system of those sequential relations that any event has to any other, as past, present, or future; indefinite and continuous duration regarded as that in which events succeed one another.
2. duration regarded as belonging to the present life as distinct from the life to come or from eternity; finite duration.
3. the end of a prescribed or allotted period, as of one’s life or a pregnancy: His time had come, but there was no one left to mourn over him. When her time came, her husband accompanied her to the delivery room.
4. a period with reference to personal experience of a specified kind: to have a good time; a hot time in the old town tonight.
5. the period necessary for or occupied by something: The time of the baseball game was two hours and two minutes. The bus takes too much time, so I’ll take a plane.
6. leisure time; sufficient or spare time: to have time for a vacation; I have no time to stop now.
7. an appointed, fit, due, or proper instant or period: a time for sowing; the time when the sun crosses the meridian; There is a time for everything.
8. the particular point in time when an event is scheduled to take place: train time; curtain time.
9. an indefinite, frequently prolonged period or duration in the future: Time will tell if what we have done here today was right.
10. of, pertaining to, or showing the passage of time.
11. to appoint or choose the moment or occasion for; schedule: He timed the attack perfectly.

–verb (used without object)
Origin: bef. 900; (n.) ME; OE t?ma; c. ON t?mi; (v.) ME timen to arrange a time, deriv. of the n.; akin to TIDE1 ]

Effort – Show Spelled Pronunciation[ef-ert] Pronunciation Key – Show IPA Pronunciation
–noun
1. exertion of physical or mental power: It will take great effort to achieve victory.
2. an earnest or strenuous attempt: an effort to keep to the schedule.
3. something done by exertion or hard work: I thought it would be easy, but it was an effort.
4. an achievement, as in literature or art: The painting is one of his finest efforts.
5. the amount of exertion expended for a specified purpose: the war effort.

Now that we have a perfect understanding of what time & effort means, allow me to share with you the logic behind TE Value and the Double Scales. This system will help you figure out the TRUE VALUE of your woman and if it’s worth it for you to stay with her. This also works for goals you have set for yourself NOT pertaining to game although you do have to change the 10 core values to fit the goal.
A lot of times when I was younger I started new businesses not realizing it was taking my TE Value away from my main business. So it took me longer to get my business off the ground. This is simply because back then I hadn’t developed a system to keep me focused on what I wanted in life. Today I use the TE VALUE plus the Double Scales that I have created to measure any major move I’m about to take including women.

TE Value – Noun – Origin 2007. Developed by Speer
1. A rating system which is applied later to the double scales to figure out the worth of your goal.
2. Your own sense of time and effort pertaining to a specific target.
3. How much time & effort you’re willing to spend on a specific target or goal.

You must be able to figure out how much time and effort you’re willing to put into each of your targets and/or goals. You must know what you’re willing and not willing to put up with. The TE Value is totally based on you. TE value goes from negative 1 to 10. Figure out how much time and effort you’re NOT willing to spend on each woman or a LTR (Long Term Relationship). Each point that you’re not willing to spend of your own time and effort becomes a negative 1.

For example:
I’m not willing to spend eight points of my time and effort in order to keep a girl around. Therefore I will add a negative 8 to double scales to figure out my girl’s TRUE VALUE.

Double Scales – Noun – Origin 2007. Developed by Speer
1. Scaling system to measure one own desires in a partner.
2. The measurement of compatibility between a male and female based on traits both physical/emotional and advantages.
3. The measurement of advantages a target contains in the eyes of the beholder.
4. A system used by a PUA or MPUA/PUA Guru in order to figure out an ideal target.

Double Scales contain two scales.
1. This scale refers ONLY to the target’s physical beauty and your attraction to your target.
2. This is the scale that reflects the ten core values.

This scale is a bit different. The way this works is a target receives one point for each trait she has. Each point reflects the emotional, spiritual, mental, and material traits desired by a suitable partner.

Speer’s ten core values of a woman:
a. Emotional Connection (Love/Extreme Like)
b. Transportation
c. Intelligence
d. Financial Success
e. Willingness to please
f. Social Intelligence (Fashion, Nails, ect..)
g. Personality (fun, exciting, trust, honest, non-neediness, adventuress, ect..)
h. Sexual Skill & Prowess
i. Social Circle
j. Social Value (High social value. Ie: celebrity, ect..)

This ten core values were my personal core values of a woman. It’s up to you to speculate on what your ten core values are. You don’t have to keep the same core values in your Double Scale because you might want family or other things that I have no interest in currently. The point of The ten core value scale is to figure out what’s really important to you in the specific target or goal. That’s why you’ll be able to use TE VALUE and THE DOUBLE SCALES to your advantage in business and/or relationships.

It works very simply once you figured out the first scale of your target/goal you add in the second scale. Once you have the total for both scales you add in the negative number from your TE VALUE to figure out the TRUE VALUE of the target/goal. If the number you come out with is 7 or less it’s not worth your time. The higher the number the better the true value of your goal/target.
If you’re using my system for business the first scale will be financial success and the core scale will be a list of ten things you’ll instantly have. If you can’t list 10 things DO NOT LIST THEM just take the base number and add it to financial success. Then just add the negative number from your TE VALUE.

Example:
The girlfriend I ended up choosing since my TE Value is -8, Her Looks Value was a 9 and core value was a 9. I chose her because -8+9+9=10 she was my true valued 10.

I hope this will help you figure out your future. It did for me and right now I have a lovely young lady lying next to me with a TRUE VALUE of 10. So there’s definitely a smile on my face.

You can find more of my theories and posts at http://kingsofpickup.com/forum

This theory helped realize that my girl is awesome and I want to be with her. she ended up heading to work shortly after the coffee. I started writing, consultation calls, conference calls, deals, ect..my normal work day. As the day progressed and headed towards the afternoon I got a call from Pinky.

The telephone rang and I thought he was calling on behalf of his summit which was partly true. I answered and here’s how the conversation went:

me: “Hello.”
Pinky: “Hi Speer it’s been a while. How are things?”
me: “Doing great and you?”
Pinky: “Just getting ready for the summit..but I have some great news and it’s only for your ears. It’s big”

Now Pinky had always called me and told me these vague ideas he had. Not sure if it was to get a second opinion or just to show off. Never the less I always have open ears. Listening to dreamers can give you ideas of your own, but what he was going to present was big. He had been to my house last August for my favorite retreat I do “FETCON RETREAT” where I laid twelve girls in two days. I like retreats because I always make sure there’s an equal share of fun and learning along with putting everyone in the perfect place to play the game.

The phone conversation continued:

me: “Yeah what is it?”

He makes me promise not to tell anyone and not to do it by myself. He’d seen the house I own and the cars I had. He knew that I was on the rise and wanted a share of the pot.

Pinky: “I was recently on a bootcamp and we rented a party bus. Everyone wanted to go to see Project Hollywood. so I took them there and guess what?”

me: Sarcastically, “It was demolished.”

Pinky: Snickers a bit “No it’s for lease.”
me: “Awesome.”

Well, we discussed it and to tell the truth I was excited. Although it was going to be expensive to get. I just bought a house and Lotus Exige. I didn’t really want to put that much down, plus moving my stuff and all the other expenses. I decided to put it to the DOUBLE SCALES THEORY and see if it was worth it.

That evening my girl came back from work and we went on our usual walk around the island. It was on in Miami Beach. I had discussed the possibility of moving to Los Angeles. She was so supportive of whatever decision I would make. She told me, “Where ever you go I’ll be.” To tell you the truth that gave me comfort and put a smile on my pondering face.

There are points in your life when you look at what your doing and begin to question it all. My first time came pretty fast on at Project Hollywood. I had a to give up a lot to come and live with

everyone. I came out a month later than the original crew. By the time I had gotten out there 2 people had already left the house.
The ones that were left were BAAA a young Asian guy, ACE a cool black guy think a young Lenny kravitz, and Hydro a tall skinny white guy from Orange County in Pinky’s crew. There were 2 new guys

coming in soon, Red Man an Army ginger, and Bouncer a Big Mexican. It was exciting to know I would be living with such a diverse group of people. I thought it was going to be just like THE GAME. We

would all go out and learn from each other. That’s the way it started out…
I noticed there was tension in the house right away as soon as I got there. People were jocking for position with the 2 guru’s in the house. In my mind we were all equal. We were there with a common

purpose, to get better with women. The Biggest problem is the same as they had in Reservoir Dogs. No one knows each other and no one wants to back down so resistance happens naturally.
BAAA was given manager responsibilities, Hydro and I were instructors from the start. Hydro got his own room and I was downstairs with all the interns in the bunks. This one fact that there were

titles went to peoples heads pretty fast. I was just happy to be there. I had lived on my own and just went out to teach when I had a camp. I had no idea how to act with all these new faces. I had

never been a frat guy. I knew how to handle them in a club but not living with them. So that’s exactly what I decided to do. I decided to become MAVEN completely. I cleaned the kitchen making it look

great, because you want to set a standard for yourself and where you live. I cleaned the bathrooms. I was just trying to fit in and find my place. Something I had always done growing up as an Army

brat moving from place to place.
It got to a point that one day Hydro came out to the kitchen as I was doing dishes and asked, “Why are you doing dishes? You’re an instructor bro so get someone else to do it.” I was in disbelief. If

I made it dirty why would I make someone else do it when it takes two seconds for me to do it myself. I never understood that I guess he was just following what Pinky had been showing him. Pinky

never did dishes and left them all around the house for the interns to pick up after him. I can’t blame Hydro because he was just modeling what he was shown after living with Pinky for 4 months.
One time after I had an amazing night with a girl, I walk out to the kitchen for a drink of water and see that Pinky had put all the dishes in the sink on the floor. Most were his from his late night

smoking sessions and craving for food. Instead of washing them he took the time to put them on the floor. Needless to say an interesting conversation with my girl pursued after that.
This is the day to day life I started with. I had come with so much excitement, So much enthusiasm, and for being there at the first party I pulled a girl up to a room no problem. I kept trying to

build off of these successes I was having. I felt like the world was given to me… until the first night we all went out with some students that were living at the house with us.

Red Man had just arrived and things were going well. The house seemed to be clicking in my mind. No real problems with the interns and everything just seemed to be passing by. There were these little

clicks consisting of Pinky’s team and Speer’s team. No real hard feelings though.
The night we go out with the students we branched off and I’m teaching. I was having fun with BAAA hanging with me getting some quick knowledge and Red Man is hanging with a girl he opened earlier.

As I’m walking around Red Man introduces his girl to me and I say hi. I’m about to leave and she goes off on knowing me from somewhere and is getting really close to me. She even followed me for a

second to keep talking to me. It’s Red’s girl so I’m not interested in her so I brushed her off. The key rule for any wing is he that opens the set owns the set.
As I sit down and watch the student in set a few minutes later I explain to BAAA, “With her asking that question as she came after me. I could of taken her from Red if I wanted to. It’s his set he

opened and I’m not going to do that. It’s respect.” He looked like he understood and we kept talking in retrospect I should of kept my mouth shut.
A guy and a girl saw that I was in a teaching mode and asked what I was doing. “I’m a pickup artist.” I replied back. I focused on my student and I wasn’t really thinking. It turns out that the guy

works for TMZ and was really interested. Only my student was moving so I had to move. As I was moving he asked BAAA,
“Are you being trained?” BAAA looked at me like a deer in head lights since he was to a point. As I stood up and was starting to walk away I said,
“No he’s not being trained and this is my good friend that knows all about what we do so talk to him about it.” Then I walked off to critique the student. To me the student comes first since after

all he’s the one that paid.
I see my student pulling the girl for the night. It’s the best feeling to know that you’re helping someone get a great result. That’s the whole point of this job. At least it is to me. He see’s me

and offers to give me a ride back to the house. I try to not impose but I realized he needed directions back to the house and didn’t want to ask for them straight out. as We are walking out I see Red

sitting with his girl. He was going to be my ride, so I walked over and told him I was leaving and I’ll see him later. Next time I will just do a text.

Seemed like a great night another happy student. How can things get any better is what I am telling myself. All of a sudden I hear speer calling me up to the hot tub. I see everyone around looking

pissed off. I thought something really bad had just happened.
Then speer said “Tell him what you just told me.” For the next half hour I got to hear BAAA explain how I devalued him in front of a producer. He felt weird talking to him after I said he wasn’t a

student. I thought it wasn’t a big deal because everyone in LA works for tv. People say a lot of things but it doesn’t mean they’re true. But it was true enough to make BAAA cry for the night. He was

so distraught about me lowering his perceived value that he went and told Red Man on the way back that I could of stole his girl. In addition I inadvertently causes a state break when I told him I

was leaving. Now I got Red Man who’s a guy I barley know pissed at me.
“What about you Hydro you got anything to say about this?” Speer asked.
“Everyone is telling me and I agree you have an ego that is getting out of check.” He said as he leaned against the rail.
DID THIS REALLY JUST HAPPEN??? A guy who not long ago was asking me why I was cleaning is telling me I have too big of an ego. I just get blind sided by almost everyone in the house. I kept my mouth

shut so I had nothing to say. When faced with superior numbers it’s best to retreat. How can I trust anyone in this house? This really is turning into THE Game fast… And here I was thinking I’m

Style… When it seems like I’m turning into Tyler. That’s when I stopped focusing on myself and when I started caring about my student more than myself. That’s the day this went from being fun and

joking around to being a job. Time to calibrate to the house…